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Topic Title: I ruined my parents life
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Deleted User said 5 years, 2 months ago:
ocd, depression, combined with personality and discipline issues caused me to be a demon. child. It made my parents say some really bad things to me, but honestly I would too if I raised myself. I remember once a year ago my mom was saying something along the lines of all the suffering I cause. I come from a dysfunctional family and my dad told me u am 75% of the problem. He later said he was exaggerating but still. My parents have probs with each other. I know that i didn’t cause but everything else…..I wish i could take away everything and give my mom the happy life she had before me. I am 14 and can’t deal with this guilt. How do I do good and make life better equivalent to all I messed up?
jennifer1722 said 5 years, 2 months ago:
Its really common for ocd and other mental illness to have an effect on the whole family. Most people with ocd show behaviour that makes them hard work. The important thing is that you recognise this now and start trying to put it right. At 14 you have so much more maturing to do and your relationship with your parents will get better as you do. Maybe you can use your desire for a better relationship with your parents to inspire you to work hard at cbt and resisting your compulsions?
Deleted User said 5 years, 2 months ago:
I’m trying with the cbt. My fear now tho is that I’m gonna end up having kids as horrible as me.